welcome baby kai!

birth is a journey, a crazy, unpredictable, wild journey!  no one can tell you how long labor will be,  when it will begin, or what the path will look like.  my midwife, bj snell, has told me several times, “if i had a crystal ball and could tell when this baby will come, i would be a rich woman!”  it’s true!  many people would pay big bucks to know this kind of info!!!  for those of us who have had the privilege of carrying our babies to full term, it’s the end that is often the most difficult!  i remember feeling so uncomfortable, not being able to sleep, only have 1 shirt that i felt decent in, and just waiting and wondering and trying to figure out… would today be the day i would meet my baby?  early on when i heard of women who scheduled c-sections without any medical need i felt so righteous and smug for my choice to go natural, but near the end i envied those women who could look at their calendar and know that on monday the 28th, an hour or so after 10:15am, they would be holding their babies!  there is little else in our life that reminds us of how little control we truly do have, than birth!  we are painfully aware of our lack of control and it is not easy to tollerate, to just ride the waves and trust that our bodies will work, our baby will come… perhaps not as early and quickly and easily as we had hoped (or maybe so!), but in the end, there is always a baby… a tiny, slippery miracle that with it’s first breath cries out, “i’m here!”…tears flow and all are in awe and nothing is ever the same!

i met pete and krista when they were pregnant with their baby boy, and looking into hiring me : )  for me, the connection was instantaneous!  and i have just LOVED the opportunity to get to know this beautiful family, through their {before baby} session we did, 21 hours of me hanging out at their place while they birthed their baby boy (see pics below), and then a {with baby} session that i still need to blog : )  plus many texts back and forth about life and photos, surfing and breastfeeding!

they had a homebirth and as you will see, their home is AMAZING!!!!  there is beauty and inspiration in every crannie of their house, but i believe it’s the beauty in their relationship that really makes this place magical.  i hope you get a glimpse of the beautiful connection that pete and krista have cultivated!  for 21 hours i photographed and laughed, drank refreshing water from wide-mouth mason jars and glass bottles, listened to stories of when krista was a little girl, looked at baby pictures, ate yummy fish tacos, witnessed many tender moments (a mother’s tears when telling her daughter how proud she was, krista’s tears during an emotional part of labor, the intensity of seeing his son for the first time, a couple clinging to each other when things were getting difficult), and all the while i sought to capture the beauty and connection that was oozing everywhere i looked.  i have never taken so many pictures!

can i be honest?  sometimes it feels awkward to bring my camera up to snap a shot of someone crying, or another tender moment.  like, what is happening is so real, so intimate… the person is being so vulnerable and trusting, dare i risk marring it with the click of my lens?  yet i tell myself, this is why i am here, to document the truest parts of this journey!  i have been invited here to do this!  heck, i have been paid to do this!  i will not shy way, but will continue to be present and engaged.  and although it can feel strange, it also is why i LOVE my job so much!  i get to be a part of one of life’s most real and raw experiences!!!  when true character arises and pretending isn’t possible any more; where it’s normal and natural to need others, and for some reason help seems a little easier to accept than it usually does.  i feel so incredibly blessed to be able to do what i do!

thank you pete and krista, for the honor of spending kai’s birthday with you (and for allowing me to share his birth story)!  what an amazing team of people you brought around you to love you and support you and walk with you through this birth journey!  you both endured and persevered so well!  and your baby boy, kai edward, is so precious… such a gracious gift from above!


born at home at 40 weeks & 6 days gestation, after 24.5 hours of labor, 9 pounds 11 ounces, 22 inches long



midwifes: bj snell & vickie alston with beach cities midwifery and women’s heathcare

doula: cathy weinstein

first assistant: michelle snyder



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  1. Posted November 15, 2012 at 4:46 pm by Candace Rock | Permalink


  2. Posted November 15, 2012 at 5:09 pm by Carmen | Permalink

    wow Lindsey, they must love you! these are A. May. Zing!!! SO beautiful!!

  3. Posted November 15, 2012 at 7:15 pm by Heidi | Permalink

    Lindsey, these are just astounding. And your processing is divine. Love them.

  4. Posted November 15, 2012 at 7:32 pm by Cherish Bryck Photography | Permalink

    Found you through Emily Robinson. These are exquisite images. Bravo for capturing such an emotional milestone.

  5. Posted November 15, 2012 at 8:14 pm by Megan | Permalink

    They seem to have more pets than we do, which is a rarity. I like that. Great photos, as usual!

  6. Posted November 15, 2012 at 9:34 pm by Kelly | Permalink

    Wow–on her back! Wonderful work as always, Lyns. Almost makes me want another one—almost!

  7. Posted November 16, 2012 at 6:45 pm by Mishka Brownley | Permalink

    What a beautiful record of this birth! Congratulations to the parents and well done to the mama! I could seriously just sit and look at these images all day – beautiful!

  8. Posted November 20, 2012 at 4:50 pm by Lauren Warren | Permalink

    This was so incredibly beautiful. I looked on with tears and amazement. What an incredible journey and gift.

  9. Posted December 4, 2012 at 11:31 pm by Nicole Boucher | Permalink

    What a wonderful birth experience to behold! Thanks for sharing!

  10. Posted January 9, 2013 at 10:42 pm by Ashley Bresenden | Permalink

    So beautiful. These are amazing Lindsey!

  11. Posted January 31, 2013 at 9:30 pm by Amanda Ditzel | Permalink

    I just wanted to stop in and say I really loved your Birth Photo Submission 🙂 Now that I have seen the whole session I am even more IN LOVE with your submission! I think the photo was beautiful and the emotion is so well captured! I can feel her pain. Your work is beautiful and you are so create in your birth photos; a nice refreshing look!

  12. Posted February 21, 2013 at 3:03 pm by Mary | Permalink

    Your work is stunning. I hope I’m spelling things right, because my vision is blurred with tears right now. That tends to be my response to the beauty of birth in general, but your photos uniquely capture the story…including the hours that pass and the waiting that birth often demands. Wow.

  13. Posted May 26, 2013 at 10:53 pm by Linda Anderson | Permalink

    I have never posted any comments before on anyone’s page, but when I saw your beautiful pictures, I had to. Your pictures are amazing! I love seeing the people around you, things around the house, pets, and capturing the emotions of you and others. How beautiful it is to be able to show this to your child. Amazing!

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